Grant went to a restraint with a gay forum member

On a more personal note, I met up with a gay forum member several years ago to go CD hunting. We went to a restraint afterward and I admit that I was somewhat uncomfortable. Oh, he sensed it right away and called me on it. :laugh:

It is hard to jettison the attitude you grew up with and were taught by your parents, religion, and society. If you interact with some straight people you know what i'm talking about.:laugh: Some guys have the paranoia that people are going to think they're gay too if they are seen with you! It's the ol' guilt by assotiation thing. The straight guy doesn't want to think that way, and they try not to, but it's hard to get past that if he isn't used to being around gay people. People talk a good game but when it comes down to it, they still have that nervousness inside them.

This is why I think it is important for people, whatever they may be, to stand up and be proud where they can. Gotta be careful, though. You can lose your job, be beaten, or killed. When people have positive exposure to those who are different than they are, they become more accepting. I hate to say it but sometimes people have to be forced to deal with others they may not be comfortable around for society can change.

That's my speech for the evening.