Post by aquaholic2017 on Mar 22, 2019 10:33:58 GMT
Hey Dipshit, this makes three is us happy you decided never to reproduce: you, your wife, and me.
Not choosing when, and whether, and how many, to have children, is the best thing my wife and I, didn't. Some day in the future, we will come to regret that. But, how can you miss the people you never knew or existed, and why should people second-guess our decision. Maybe we'll "Thelma-and-Louise" ourselves rather than worry about who will take care of us when we cannot. Maybe we'll grow bitter without the temperment of family around us...or, maybe we'll miss that ironic resentment altogether. Or, maybe we'll just get the good half of the "Soylent Green" equation...and let others recycle the other half.
One thing I am sure of: we have been nice and caring towards the people around us, and there are many. They wish we would buy into their smartphone mania. They think we are denying the world something by not bringing more mouths to feed into the world, and spreading our wonderfulness into the next generation. They think we would make wonderful foster parents. They don't understand why one of us will go to the beach, and the other will meet friends at industry gatherings. Or why we don't share pictures of wonderful cancer surviving children on FaceBook and celebrate mothers so they come up in our timelines so we can see them like we did four years ago. They wonder why we work in a music industry, yet don't thrill to seeing some 8-year-old sing Queen on some teevee show every other night.
Mostly, they see us as the only ones in their circle marking anniversaries year-in-and-out...with stability.
That Tim Lookingbill asswipe needs his own thread now. His shitpoating ha ascended to this level, imho.
When I read that he would like to have microwaved a dog and then your comment that he needed his own thread I couldn’t have agreed more. So here it is. Tim Lookingbill is a whining piece of shit. That dog comment that I have in the new thread below - that boils my blood. If he thinks about dogs like that no wonder he can’t relate to his own kids. Fuck that stupid mother fucker.
Post by Digestive Biscuit on Mar 22, 2019 11:40:58 GMT
Time Is On My Side:
So my sister is getting a divorce...
And I am losing my mind over it. I disagree with the idea of divorce to begin with (because it is not acceptable in Catholicism). I also don't think this will be good for her young daughter moving between parents, but I know some that are able to work it out so the kid doesn't suffer because of it. I really am worried that she will come knocking on my door and on one hand I want to say know because I know she is a slob, doesn't clean up after herself and won't contribute to bills. On the other hand, it's my sister and I don't know where else she is supposed to go. I don't know why she and my brother-in-law cannot go to counseling or something. Both of them have bad drinking problems and don't want to stop going out every other night. Can anyone provide advice so I can think about this straight?
When done properly, a good divorce BENEFITS the kids. They are no longer in a sad and toxic household. Plus they get two Christmases. Of course, it's up to the parents to continue to work together to make that happen. As much as my mother rightfully was disgusted with my father, she never let it get in the way of cooperating with him as a parent. She expressed to me (in so many words) that even if he hadn't been a good husband to her, he was still a good father to me. I mean, she was wrong, but she didn't live to see that.
Ask any musician/band about STeVE. Many of them would answer: Who the hell are them?
Post by Digestive Biscuit on Dec 17, 2019 19:39:23 GMT
It's true, no money, no honey. However there are exceptions to the rule. Occasionally I party at the Latin clubs in the city next door to me. It's a poor city so no Miami/LA Kardashian types. On a good night you feel like you're at a Victoria Secret convention. Many of the Latinas there are as hot as that VB player. Most of them are very friendly, polite and approachable, provided you have good game. I learned to speak some Spanish and dance Salsa to help meet these lovely senoritas, even in my early 60's. So you just have to know where the best fishing spots are, what bait to use and how to reel in the big catches
Senoritas aren't my thing. As a co-worked commented about me once, I'm not attracted to anyone with a darker complexion than Goldie Hawn. That's about right. My three main traits I look for - blonde, blonde and blonde. Tried dating a brunette once but didn't work.